Parenting Workbook

✅Two pages: All of my questions
✅Kids care and safety checklist
Five pages: All of my documents
✅ 1 Activity: Feelings Check-In
✅ 2 pages Check list items/Routines

82 = 82×1 Minute: 82 minutes /60 ~ 1 hour 30 minute
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Daily Routine Entry
How do they get dressed or bathe?
When do they sleep and wake up?
Have they been hurt/had an accident recently
What medicine have they taken recently?
Any unusual / important events recently?
Where food was bought?
What food was bought?
Any substitutions?
Anything to know about meals / snacks?
What is the doctor or nurse’s name?
Which adult was there?
Where did the visit happened?
Why did the visit happen?
What was noticed?
Were there any school events?
Party
Were there any changes in behavior
What helps him/her learn better at school? 

Share if a trip takes >60 seconds in order to make sure he/she is cared for.

How long the outing will be?
What is the activity?
Any notes to help with planning?
What is the babysitter/helper's name?
What is their phone number?
Where will they be?
What are the drop-off and pick-up times?
Anything important to know?
Write any questions or comments below:

Shared Family Rules
No parties late at night
No slapping, hitting or hurting at all
Don't talk about weight/dieting around him/herUse kind and respectful words
Tell the truth about money spent
Tell others if there is an accident
Tell others if they stay somewhere overnight

Everything written calm, honest, and about helping. The goal is safety, fairness, and care.

Your Kid Care Checklist
Kid's Temporary Removal Care Safety Checklist
Dresses in a way that helps them do on their own
Cean in a way that helps them do it on their own

They sleep at the same time each night
Adults notice if they're tired, sick, or hurt
An adult helps them safely take medicine
Adults write down changes
They have food they like and can eat
Adults make sure they have meals + snacks
If food changes, adults tell each other
Their body is respected and no one talks about dieting around them.
They go to the doctor when they need to
An adult goes with them
Adults share what the doctor says
Adults notice their body + feelings
They go to school or learning activities
Adults help them when school feels hard
Adults talk kindly about school
Adults share important school news
Adults tell each other about big trips
They know where they are going
They know who is taking care of them
Plans are made so they feel safe
They know who is helping take care of them
Adults share names and phone numbers
Pick-up and drop-off times are clear
They are with safe adults
Adults talk kindly to each other
Adults write things down
No blaming or fighting in front of them
Questions are asked to help, not hurt
No hitting or hurting ever
Adults use kind words
They are treated with respect
Adults tell the truth about accidents
Adults tell each other if they sleep overnight
Everyone respects where they're from
Their safety comes first.

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