Jane Doe Files

Growing up, Jane Doe was living with her mom since her father moved out and her mom constantly alienated her from her father. Now having severe autoimmune problems, she just recovered this message from when she was a child. It is a message to Jane Doe's father from her mother. Feel free to exaggerate and avoid any identifying information.


Hey, I don't know of Isabella mentioned anything to you about her tonsils. I didn't want to say anything until I got all the information. Isabella has been having increased snoring and restless sleep. I took her to her regular pediatric doctor who checked her for sinus infection, strep throat, and allergies. None of those appeared to be the cause but she did find that her tonsils were enlarged so she referred us to a pediatric ENT at Brenners Children's Hospital for further evaluation. We just went last week. The ENT said her tonsils were enlarged causing her to have sleep apnea and not getting good quality sleep. She recommended to have her tonsils removed. Recovery time is about 2 weeks. She said there is no rush and considering it's so close to the school year (and after talkir we decided it was best to wait until her teacher)

We will be staying in a 2 bedroom cabin. We will need to leave on Friday and won't be back until the following Saturday. She can still do the phone visits and will try out best the keep the times. If possible maybe we could make the time later in the evening. I'll send pictures of the resort.

throat, and allergies. None of those appeared to be the cause but she did find that her tonsils were enlarged so she referred us to a pediatric ENT at Brenners Children's Hospital for further evaluation. We just went last week. The ENT said her tonsils were enlarged causing her to have sleep apnea and not getting good quality sleep. She recommended to have her tonsils removed. Recovery time is about 2 weeks. She said there is no rush and considering it's so close to the school year (and after talking with her teacher) we decided it was best to wait until school was out for the summer. I'll let you know when a date is scheduled.

Also Isabella's spring break is coming up and we have an opportunity to go to Westgate Ranch Resort in Florida. It is a 9 1/2 drive and we wiak it into 2 days instead of trying to drive straight through.

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