PHASES OF LIGHT CHECKLIST

1. PURPOSE (Why this matters)
Define the petition goal (basic dignity)
Define your personal goal (access to hygiene)
Keep both goals separate and clear
Remind yourself: real impact > not pressure

2. PETITION (Awareness & Action)
Finalize the message (simple and clear)
Make sure the purpose is easy to understand
Share the petition (one clear ask at a time)
Track responses or engagement
Stay consistent, not forceful

3. PERSONAL ACCESS (Needs & Stability)
List hygiene essentials you need
Track what you currently have
Identify what needs to be replaced or restocked
Create a simple plan to access these items
Check in weekly on what’s working

4. CONNECTION (People & Community)
Start small conversations (no pressure)
Focus on listening, not just explaining
Build trust slowly over time
Keep interactions natural, not transactional
Note who feels safe and supportive

5. MUSIC & MEDIA (Expression & Reach)
Choose music that reflects your message
Share content that feels honest and calm
Use media as a bridge, not a tool for pressure
Keep tone warm and real
Post or share consistently (not perfectly)

6. INTERNAL RESET (Your Well-being)
Take breaks when things feel heavy
Do one thing daily that feels normal or comforting
Allow moments that are not about the project
Avoid overloading yourself with too many tasks
Check in with how you feel (not just what you do)

7. BOUNDARIES (Keep it Healthy)
Do not combine multiple asks at once
Keep each step focused on one purpose
Avoid turning connections into obligations
Protect your energy and time
Step back if something feels overwhelming

8. PROGRESS CHECK (Weekly)
What worked this week?
What felt too heavy?
What felt natural or positive?
What is one small next step?

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