First Six Phases of Light

The Six Phases Of Light (February)
Primary Goal
Access to hygiene resources petition awareness.

Secondary Goal
Relationship-building (friend, music, media).

Internal Goal
Re-establish warmth and normalcy.

Rules
Never bundle asks.
One clear purpose at a time.
Music + social media are funnels, not leverage.
The petition stands on its own integrity.
No “support my petition” inside music convos.
No church tagging tied to activism unless invited.
When comment on the music or the live stream.
No petition.
No products.
No scarcity talk.
Not transactional.
No we’ve supported you, please support us.
No assuming access.
No bundling shampoo petition band in one convo.
No implying moral obligation.
No using music as leverage.

Anchor
If he feels like a conduit instead of a friend, everything collapses. curious, grounded, human..

Hygiene
This comes first, and it stays small. Frame it as information, not a request.

Script
Random practical question—does your church ever have extra hygiene stuff like shampoo or soap from drives or donations? I’m asking around generally and thought you might know.

Space
Wait. Even if he says yes. Let the interaction breathe. This signals you’re not stacking asks.

Petition
I am not asking you to fix anything. I'm offering the community something to consider.

Script
I’ve been working on a petition focused on basic dignity needs and transparency around access to essentials. I respect how your church shows up publicly, so I wanted to ask—would it be appropriate to share it with whoever handles outreach or community care? Totally okay if not.

Acknowledge boundaries and respect - NOT guilt and pressure. Thank them sincerely either way.

Music + Media
Music and media stay adjacent, not attached. Parallel paths that occasionally intersect, not one feeding off the other.

YouTube
Institutions move slow. Integrity moves steady. Them not following, is neutral data, not rejection.

Mission/Vision
I'm building credibility, not favors.
I'm offering alignment, not extraction.
I'm playing the long game—with clean hands


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