Anonymous Refuge

Domestic violence contributes to deaths from homicide, suicide, and even preventable injuries during pregnancy and is considered a preventable cause of death and injury. Prevention strategies involve addressing risk factors through education, promoting healthy relationship norms, implementing firearm restrictions for abusers, and community-based interventions to support survivors and interrupt violence.

Over the next 12 weeks, I am going to single-handedly cultivate a following where words connect, not attack. With each week highlighting the 12 steps and 12 traditions all leading up to that alleged spirit awakening as a result of these steps.

Is it real, does it work, and will the same happen to me? Now you may be asking about my own addiction well I'm proud to say I am over ten years free from my drug of choice and three years sober and I want to see if the 12-steps can be applied not to an addiction to substance but also to a problem with relationships.

In my book I talk all about my 29 years of toxic relationships and my voluntary recovery. Somewhere in these twelve weeks, I'm going to take you guys along with me: my first lesbian experience, which to be honest, is TERRIFYING but you can go ahead and read all about the juicy details in my preview at bookfundraiser.com.

If you feel aligned, go ahead and donate. After reaching my goal of $7,000 the book can be printed and distributed to the public but that's not all, I'm throwing in even more free stuff so make sure you follow me on Instagram as well and stay signed into our email subscribers list because these next twelve weeks are going to be CRAZY.

Other Stories You Will Be Following
- my custody battle in an abuse case
- what's happening to my labia majora (omg)
- introducing my daughter to you guys
- launching our family channel proving recovery is possible.

and just because sometimes this stuff gets way to hard to talk about and even I can run out of words to say about it and all you can do is pray for that sick and suffering addict because it gets way too real sometimes - ASMR for those brain breathers to decompress. That's right follow me there as well at TikTok.com/@jaeminonprofit.

Alright guys that's it for this introduction to Anonymous Refuge. Because why not. For more about the next 12 weeks - follow me and I will see you right back here tomorrow. And get ready because we are pretty stoked to bring you guys behind the scenes content bringing you along with all the highs and lows of starting a grass roots business.

Come hang out with us and get an early start by following us on Patreon. Become one of the first free followers at patreon.com/justjaemi.

Thanks guys talk to you soon bye!

Prayer
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things that I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Keep Coming back it works if you work it!!!!

TWELVE STEP LIVE VIDEO JOURNAL TEMPLATE
Based Off OfThe Anonymous Refuge 12-Step Program

Opening (1–2 minutes)
This is my Twelve Step video journal. I’m not here to teach, fix, or convince anyone. I’m just documenting my process honestly.

> If you’re watching live, this is about reflection—not advice.

Reflection Questions:
• How am I feeling right now, in this moment?
• What do I hope this step gives me?
• What belief/emotion am I releasing?

Closing
> That’s my Twelve Step reflection. I’m not done—I’m just beginning. I’ll be back with Another Twelve Steps when I’m ready. > If this resonated, you’re not alone.

What Should I Talk About Next?
✅ Trauma-informed wording
✅ Stream-safe prompts
✅ Boundaries against oversharing

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